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The Lie Factory- 4 Scams Men Should Avoid Like Poison

Posted: September 27th, 2010 | Author: dio | Filed under: Uncategorized | Tags: , , , , , , , , | No Comments »

We all Want to Believe.  We Need to Believe – but its that very need that allows us to fall prey to the world’s con artists. All a thief needs is a reasonable sounding line of shit and some knowledge on how to exploit the human psyche to get people to line up and hand over their hard earned money.

The dating / seduction arena (like every other arena) is packed with scammers making big promises.  Before your hopes get the better of your common sense, lets take a look at the facts.

  • Subliminal Audio- First, let me ask.. in your mind, how do you tell a story where you and the girl you like are alone in a quiet place where you can crank up the audio of the hottest new release for her to groove to –  layers of nature sounds and erie  background whispers. It sounds ludicrous because it is.  Not to mention that there is virtually zero empirical evidence that subliminal messages work – if they did, they’d be used by every advertiser, every retail outlet, every politician, etc, and there would be PR agencies that specialize in that sort of thing.  There aren’t.
  • NLP – Short for neuro linguistic programing- which is in itself, very difficult to define (even by the nlp experts themselves).  NLP states that you can change a person’s behavior by changing the language they use  (plausible).  They also assert that you can read a persons body language, or use your body language to affect others.  This in fact can be done – but its more of an art than an science, and has to do more with social intelligence than anything else.  Can a magic phrase, a special inflection and a raised eyebrow turn an indifferent girl into a nympho?  Not a chance in hell.
  • Pheromone Colognes.  Pheromones are chemicals that elicit a social response among members of the same species ,  They are very real and abundant in both the plant world and animal kingdom alike.  The real question: is there a commercially available fragrance that attracts women?  The real answer: NO. If you want to give the pheromone aphrodisiac theory a whirl,  you don’t need to wear the equivalent of Rhesus monkey ball-sweat…. just stop wearing antiperspirant.
  • Any Penis Enlargement / Male Enhancement Scam. They are ALL scams. 1) Your penis is probably ‘normal’ so you can relax.  The average male unit is around 6” when erect (give or take half an inch). What you’ve got is what you’ve got.  Accept it. 2) There is no ointment, herb, vitamin that will make it bigger.  There’s no FDA oversight for nutritional supplements, so you might be ingesting ground up spiders and dried goat-shit. 3) Yanking, tugging, stretching, pumping your penis WILL DAMAGE YOUR PENIS!!!  4) If you read the horrific description of the surgical procedures some butchers doctors preform, your legs would snap together and you’d grab your package like you were protecting the Hope Diamond.

The world’s best pick up artists don’t bother with any of this nonsense. Neither should you.

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“I’M SO STUPID!” 3 DISASTROUS MISTAKES GUYS MAKE WITH WOMEN

Posted: September 21st, 2010 | Author: dio | Filed under: Uncategorized | Tags: , , , , , | No Comments »

If you’re looking for insight into how women think, you might be tempted to ask some of your female buddies just what they look for in a man.  Or you might read some books written by female Ph.D’s or “relationship experts” who explain in great depth how the double X chromosome psyche works.  Seems logical enough- you want an answer, you go to the source.  And if you do this, and take their advice, you’ll be damning yourself loneliness, frustration and confusion

The reason is that what women SAY they want and what they actually are attracted to are TOTALLY DIFFERENT.  Most of them don’t even realize this.  For the few that do, social conventions dictate they want one thing (a nice,sensitive,  stable guy) when they secretly yearn for another (a guy who’s a challenge, who’s a little dangerous).

If you’ve bought into the deception, you’re probably making some fatal mistakes with women. You might be making the same mistakes over and over – hell, I know I did.  When I finally reached the limit of heart-ache, I began to observe how relationships developed in the REAL world (not the Lifetime Movie Network world), and I consulted with men who were REAL EXPERTS and who were getting the results i wanted.

TRYING TOO HARD

This is a biggie.  A guy will often try to impress a girl. He’ll  try to entertain her constantly.  Fill in all the conversational gaps.  Call, email and text all the time.  Re-affirm commonalities and tell her what a great couple they’d make.  Hit her with non-stop compliments.

All of this puts a tremendous amount of pressure on a girl and is guaranteed to drive her away. Think  about it – how do you feel in any situation where someone is trying to grease you up and hard sell you?  Put off?  Suspicious? Exactly.

Remember what Chris Rock said: “No body sells crack.  Crack sells itself”

Girls are attracted to men who pose a challenge. Guys that are confident and independent enough to stand on their own.  You MUST  let her feel as if she’s earning your interest.  An occasional compliment is fine – but you have to balance that with (playful) teasing to put her on the defensive a bit. You have nothing to prove. And don’t be too accessible, either.  Remember- a budding romance seldom dies of starvation, but is often killed by indigestion.

ADMITTING YOUR FEELINGS
You think, “maybe she just doesn’t understand how much I like her.  If she only knew what was in my heart, she wouldn’t have any doubts and could open her heart to me”.  So you tell her.  Now she won’t return your calls.
Gads!  I’ve actually done this!

One of the immutable laws of relationships is that the person who cares less has more power! That holds true at the start and it holds true 10 years down the line.  Of course you need to let her know that you’re into her, but she needs to feel the very real possibility that at any moment, you could walk away.  That feeling of uncertainty is a critical component in passion.  If you admit you care for her first, or care for her most, you ll tip the scales in her favor and she will cool on you.
The next time you feel the need to look her in the eyes and express your feelings… SHUT UP! Say less, and you won’t say the wrong thing!

MOVING TOO FAST
So you’ve been on a few dates and thing are going really well.  Maybe you’ve even taken her to bed.  That does NOT mean you are a couple.  Do NOT assume you can just drop by her place on Friday night and hang out.

Relationships take time to build.  You cant just slap together a few dates and think you’ve got something that’s solid. Be patient.  Be elusive.  Let her wonder where you stand. That means sometimes, you will have other plans (even if you don’t).  It means you return every other call and every third text.  If you chase, she will run.So  don’t chase.

If you’re continually getting ditched, or meeting girls who want to be ‘friends’ not lovers, and if you’re fed up, its time to make some changes. Humans are ruled by EMOTION, and they justify their actions with LOGIC. If you want success with women, you need to play to their psychology: pique their curiosity, be playful, position your value, use the scarcity principle, tease, be unpredictable, etc.

Don’t try so hard.  Play your cards close to your vest, and care less than she does. Say less.  Take your time, let her come to you.  Be a challenge.  TAKE SOME RISKS.  You’ll be glad you did.

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